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Writer's pictureKayla Victoria

True Fulfillment Starts With Being True To Yourself

Updated: Jul 17, 2023

Living authentically and aligning with your values and desires brings satisfaction and fulfillment. When you are true to yourself, you are more likely to make choices that lead to happiness and personal growth.


Every person strives for fulfillment and happiness in their life. We all want to live a purposeful, meaningful, and authentic life. However, true satisfaction doesn't come from external achievements or material possessions. It starts with being true to yourself.


After serving for nine years, I strived to find my own identity separating from the Marine Corps. I had so many job opportunities, which made it more difficult to choose from. Although I was very grateful for that over not having any at all, I'm the type of woman that will go in the closet with clothes that have tags on them and say, "I don't have anything to wear. Time to go shopping!"


The Marine Corps was my first job, and I worked hard to enlist and remain there, but I reached a point of wanting more. I served as a Combat Photographer, but I wanted a position in the medical field as a Behavioral Health Specialist. However, spending much time alone made me realize my soul craved independence. I wanted to speak my mind freely without being "politically correct" all the time. I also found myself being a people pleaser. As an Aquarius, that's a HELL NO! I found myself in a depressed state of mind because I was keeping back a lot regarding my emotions.


Being true to yourself means embracing yourself, despite societal pressures, expectations, or judgments. It means living your life according to your values, beliefs, and passions rather than conforming to the expectations of others. When you live authentically, you align yourself with your true essence, allowing you to experience a sense of fulfillment and contentment.


Take the time to reflect on what is important to you, what makes you happy, and what drives you. Understanding your values will guide you in making decisions that align with your identity.


Living in alignment with your values can sometimes be challenging when you are focusing on what others may think and feel. Society often imposes its own rules and expectations, making it difficult to stay true to yourself. Your happiness and fulfillment should not be compromised to fit in or meet others' expectations.


True fulfillment comes from within, by living an authentic life that is true to your desires and aspirations. Take the path that feels right for you, even if it differs from what society deems normal or successful. Be honest with yourself and acknowledge your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for growth. Embracing your true self means accepting all aspects of who you are, including the parts you may not perceive as perfect. Self-acceptance is a critical step in the journey toward fulfillment.


Living authentically also means staying true to your passions and interests. It requires pursuing the activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment, regardless of their popularity or societal approval. When you engage in activities that resonate with your core self, you experience a sense of flow and purpose.


I ended up with the idea of starting a blog while deciding YouTube wasn't the route I wanted to take at the moment. However, I love expressing myself through writing. I have been in college throughout my career in the military and was able to master balancing homework, responsibilities as a Marine, and family life. I have also been journaling consistently since February 23, 2023.


Authenticity also extends to your relationships. Being true to yourself means surrounding yourself with people who support and accept you for who you are. Surrounding yourself with genuine connections allows you to express yourself freely and receive the love and assistance you deserve.


Living an authentic life doesn't mean that things will always be easy. There will be challenges, setbacks, and moments of self-doubt. However, staying true to yourself enables you to navigate these obstacles with resilience and grace. It helps you focus on what truly matters, even in adversity.


In conclusion, true fulfillment starts with being true to yourself. Embrace your values, beliefs, and passions and align your actions with them. It requires honesty, accepting who you are, and pursuing a life that brings you joy and purpose. True fulfillment comes from within and can only be achieved by staying true to your desires and aspirations.


So, be courageous, be genuine, and be true to yourself. You will find the fulfillment you seek!






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